Why Twin Flames Are the Same Soul (And Why Only One Awakens)
One of the most interesting questions I receive through New World Allstar concerns the fundamental nature of the Twin Flame phenomenon. How did anyone originally figure out that Twin Flames are the same Soul? Why couldn't they simply be two kindred spirits, two people vibrating at the same frequency, or two individuals who happen to mirror each other psychologically? And if Twin Flames really are two incarnations of the same Soul, why does one experience a spontaneous spiritual awakening while the other seems completely unaware of what is happening?
My name is Kurt Johnson, and after years of studying the Twin Flame phenomenon and working with thousands of people, I have identified recurring patterns that distinguish this experience from an ordinary romantic relationship. The most important is the relationship between the awakened incarnation's state of consciousness and the behavior of the other incarnation. When one Twin Flame identifies with the psychological mind and focuses outwardly on obtaining the other person, the other person withdraws. When the awakened incarnation moves into alignment with Soul, the other person responds by moving closer. This relationship can repeat many times, and its consistency is one of the reasons I describe Twin Flames as two incarnations functioning within one unified system.
There is also a deeper question worth exploring. What underlying arrangement could explain the energetic differences between the two incarnations, their complementary roles, and the fact that only one experiences the awakening? My working explanation involves reincarnation, the development of consciousness across incarnations, and the possibility that two lives belonging to the same Soul can overlap in physical time. Understanding this requires beginning with what can actually be observed in the Twin Flame experience before moving into the explanation of why it happens.
How Could Anyone Have Discovered That Twin Flames Are the Same Soul?
I do not know who originally figured out that Twin Flames are the same Soul, or exactly how that conclusion was reached. It is possible that someone received the information through a psychic experience. Spiritual traditions contain many accounts of intuitive knowledge and direct experiences of consciousness that do not arise through ordinary reasoning. But I suspect there is a more straightforward explanation, and it begins with the behavior of the two incarnations.
Imagine meeting someone who triggers a spontaneous spiritual awakening. Your life begins changing in ways you never anticipated. You experience an intense connection, followed by separation and a psychological struggle that seems completely disproportionate to the amount of time you may have known the person. Then, as you begin studying the teachings of non-duality, you notice something extraordinary.
Whenever you become consumed with thoughts about the person, focus outwardly on obtaining them, or attempt to force the relationship into existence, they pull away. But when you stop pursuing them and move into a deeper state of spiritual alignment, they suddenly become interested in you again. They contact you, return to your life, or begin seeking your company. Now imagine that this happens repeatedly. You shift into identification with the psychological mind, and the person withdraws. You move into alignment with Soul, and the person returns. Over time, a relationship becomes apparent between your internal state and their external behavior.
This is not simply a matter of two people enjoying each other's company or sharing similar personalities. It is a recurring pattern in which a change on one side of the relationship is followed by a corresponding change on the other. This is the Twin Flame push-pull, and through New World Allstar, I have observed it repeatedly. It is one of the foundations of my unified-system explanation because Twin Flames are not functioning as two completely independent spiritual entities. They are two incarnations of one Soul, and changes within the conscious incarnation affect the state of the system.
Now consider how someone encountering this phenomenon for the first time might interpret it. They begin studying the non-dual teachings, which describe the underlying Oneness of consciousness. They discover that the psychological mind experiences separation while Soul is fundamentally united. Then they notice that the other person's behavior consistently responds to whether they are identified with separation or aligned with Oneness. It would be entirely reasonable for them to begin wondering whether the two individuals were somehow expressions of the same Soul.
I suspect that something like this may have contributed to the original recognition of the Twin Flame phenomenon. I cannot establish its historical origin, but the relationship between consciousness and the push-pull provides a compelling explanation for how someone could have arrived at that conclusion.
The Physical Experiences That Make the Connection So Unusual
The push-pull is not the only unusual characteristic I have observed. Some Twin Flames also report striking physical similarities, particularly in their facial structure and the area surrounding their eyes. I am not talking about having the same eye color. I mean similarities in the shape of the face, the bone structure around the eyes, and other recognizable features that can make the two individuals appear surprisingly alike.
Facial resemblance alone does not establish that two people are Twin Flames. Unrelated people can resemble one another for ordinary biological reasons. But when these similarities appear alongside a spontaneous spiritual awakening and the recurring push-pull, they become another interesting part of the overall pattern.
There is also a much more unusual experience that approximately half of the people I have worked with report: a physical sensation of energy moving between themselves and their Twin Flame. I have experienced this personally, and the sensation is quite different from ordinary romantic attraction. When someone says they feel drawn to another person, they usually mean that they are emotionally attracted to them. They might experience longing, excitement, or an intense desire to be physically close. What I am describing is something else entirely.
Imagine a powerful elastic band attached to your torso, physically pulling you toward something. Or imagine the tractor beam from Star Trek, except that the sensation is occurring within your own body. You can feel a force pulling or stretching through you. It is not simply an emotion or a thought about wanting to be near someone. I have also used the analogy of water moving through a pipe along the spine when describing Kundalini experiences. Some people experience sensations of energy moving upward through the body, occasionally accompanied by an unusual feeling of being lifted or pulled.
In my own Twin Flame experience, I felt a distinct physical sensation of energy moving between us. What made the experience particularly interesting was that my Twin Flame later acknowledged feeling it too. I did not immediately question her about it. Approximately two or three weeks after the experience, I asked whether she had felt anything unusual. She confirmed that she had. When I asked what she thought it was, she did not have an explanation.
That experience remains significant to me because it was not simply an internal emotional reaction that I was interpreting as a connection. The other person acknowledged experiencing something unusual as well. I have also heard from other people whose unawakened Twin Flames described feeling pressure or energy directed toward them. Not everyone reports these sensations, and I do not use their absence to disqualify an otherwise genuine Twin Flame experience. But they are part of the recurring observations that informed my understanding of the connection.
When these physical experiences are considered alongside the push-pull and the spontaneous spiritual awakening, the same-Soul explanation becomes much more substantial than the ordinary idea that two people simply have compatible personalities or share a similar spiritual frequency.
Why Union and Separation Are the Rosetta Stone
Of all the observations I have made, however, the most important is the relationship between the Twin Flame push-pull and the ancient teachings of non-duality. I have often described this as the Rosetta Stone of the Twin Flame phenomenon because the terminology itself reveals something essential about what is happening.
Consider the words Union, separation, and detachment. These expressions are used throughout the spiritual community, particularly in discussions of consciousness, ego, and non-duality. They have meanings that extend far beyond romantic relationships. In non-dual spirituality, separation refers to the psychological experience of being an individual self existing apart from everything else. The mind creates this experience through identification with thoughts, memories, desires, and the personal identity it has constructed.
Union, by contrast, refers to the recognition of the underlying Oneness of consciousness. It is not something the mind creates. It is the Reality that becomes apparent when identification with the separate psychological self subsides. Detachment follows naturally from that recognition because when you no longer identify with the psychological self that believes it is incomplete, you no longer need to obtain something external to establish your fundamental wholeness.
These are familiar principles in the wider non-dual spiritual tradition. Yet within much of the online Twin Flame community, the same words have been reduced to descriptions of relationship status. People say they are in separation because their Twin Flame is not physically with them. They say they have achieved Union when the relationship becomes permanent. They describe detachment as a technique for making the other person return. The spiritual meanings have been replaced by romantic ones, and that misunderstanding obscures the very mechanism that makes the Twin Flame phenomenon so extraordinary.
The mind is separation, while Soul is Union. When the awakened Twin Flame identifies with the psychological mind and directs attention outwardly toward obtaining the other person, the unified system responds with the familiar running behavior. When the awakened incarnation aligns with Soul and recognizes the underlying Oneness of consciousness, the system responds differently, and the person who previously withdrew begins moving closer.
This is why the first video in my The True Twin Flame Teachings playlist addresses Union and separation. It establishes the fundamental distinction necessary to understand everything that follows. The Great Spiritual Masters did not need to teach Twin Flame mechanics for their explanations of consciousness to be relevant. They were describing the nature of Reality and the distinction between mind and Soul. My work applies those principles to the recurring behavior of two incarnations functioning within one unified system.
That relationship between non-duality and the push-pull is, in my view, the strongest explanation for how someone could have originally recognized that Twin Flames are the same Soul. It also provides the philosophical foundation for understanding why the two incarnations respond to each other in such unusual ways.
The Reincarnation Explanation: Two Lives of the Same Soul
There is another explanation I have developed that brings several of these observations together. What if your Twin Flame is another incarnation of your own Soul? More specifically, what if the two of you represent different points in the reincarnational history of the same consciousness, with both incarnations appearing in the physical world during the same historical period?
This is the working explanation I have developed for why Twin Flames share one Soul while exhibiting different levels of consciousness and different roles within the unified system. Ordinarily, people imagine reincarnation as a strictly linear process. Someone lives a life, dies, and is eventually born again at a later point in history. The sequence is imagined as moving forward through calendar time, one incarnation after another.
But the spiritual perspective introduces another possibility. What if consciousness is not fundamentally confined to the same experience of linear time that governs ordinary physical life? What if incarnations belonging to the same Soul can occur at different historical points without following the sequence we ordinarily imagine?
Under that explanation, an incarnation you experience as belonging to your Soul's past could exist during a calendar year that overlaps with another incarnation. Two lives belonging to the same Soul could therefore be physically present at the same time. This would explain how Twin Flames can be the same Soul without being the same physical person. They are distinct human incarnations, with different bodies, personalities, memories, and life experiences, but the consciousness underlying those incarnations is one.
This also changes the way we think about the phrase "past life." We ordinarily assume that a past life must have occurred during an earlier historical period. But if reincarnation is not restricted to a simple forward-moving calendar sequence, the relationship between incarnational order and historical time becomes more complicated. An incarnation belonging to an earlier stage of the Soul's development would not necessarily need to have been born hundreds of years before the current incarnation. It could exist in the present.
I want to distinguish this explanation from established physics. Einstein's theory of relativity demonstrates that time is not measured identically by every observer under every physical condition. It does not establish that reincarnation can occur across different historical periods or that spiritual planes provide unrestricted access to time. The reincarnation explanation is my synthesis of spiritual teachings and the patterns I have observed within the Twin Flame phenomenon. It is not a conclusion that has been experimentally demonstrated by conventional physics.
Nevertheless, it provides a coherent way to understand several characteristics of Twin Flames that otherwise appear unrelated. One of the most important is the difference between the awakened and unawakened incarnations, particularly the fact that they do not appear to possess the same degree of spiritual awareness.
Why One Twin Flame Has More Consciousness
In my work, I describe the awakened incarnation as the Divine Feminine and the unawakened incarnation as the Divine Masculine. These terms refer to energetic polarity and spiritual function, not simply biological sex. The Divine Feminine is the conscious incarnation. This is the person who experiences the spontaneous spiritual awakening, recognizes the extraordinary nature of the connection, and becomes aware of the relationship between their internal state and the behavior of the other incarnation.
The Divine Masculine is the reactive incarnation. This person responds to changes within the unified system without necessarily understanding what is happening or recognizing the spiritual connection. My reincarnation explanation offers a reason for this asymmetry. If the two incarnations represent different stages in the development of the same Soul, the awakened incarnation has undergone more incarnational experience. In the spiritual framework I use, consciousness develops through successive lives, and the later incarnation possesses a greater degree of accumulated consciousness or spiritual energy.
The Divine Feminine therefore has the greater energetic capacity within the pair, while the Divine Masculine represents an earlier stage of the same Soul's incarnational development. This would explain why the two incarnations do not experience the connection in the same way. They belong to the same underlying consciousness, but they are not functioning from identical positions within its development. The conscious incarnation recognizes the spiritual process, while the reactive incarnation responds to it.
This is an important distinction because many people assume that if Twin Flames are the same Soul, both individuals should automatically possess the same spiritual awareness. But being expressions of the same Soul does not require identical psychological development, identical life experiences, or identical states of consciousness. The two incarnations are distinct human lives, and if one represents a later stage of the Soul's development, it makes sense within this explanation that the two would not possess the same degree of spiritual awareness.
This is one of the reasons I find the reincarnation model so useful. It provides an underlying explanation for the energetic polarity that I have observed repeatedly through New World Allstar, rather than treating the awakened and unawakened roles as arbitrary labels.
How the Unified System Produces the Push-Pull
The difference in energetic polarity also helps explain the push-pull. Twin Flames function as one unified system. When the conscious incarnation introduces pressure through psychological attachment, obsessive focus, or attempts to obtain the other person, the system responds through the opposite polarity. The Divine Masculine withdraws. When the conscious incarnation stops directing that pressure outwardly and returns to alignment with Soul, the system begins to rebalance, and the Divine Masculine responds by moving closer.
This is why I emphasize that the running behavior is not fundamentally a problem of the other person's psychological understanding. People frequently assume their Twin Flame is running because they are afraid of love, have unresolved childhood trauma, are emotionally unavailable, or need to undergo their own spiritual awakening. Those explanations may sound plausible because they resemble familiar patterns from ordinary relationships, but they do not account for the recurring relationship between the awakened incarnation's state of consciousness and the other person's behavior.
In my observations, the same person can withdraw when the awakened incarnation begins chasing and return when that pursuit stops. The psychological history of the unawakened incarnation has not necessarily changed. What changed was the state of the unified system, and that is the essential distinction.
I sometimes compare the relationship to energy moving within a connected physical system. In thermodynamics, energy transfer and the movement toward equilibrium are central principles. The analogy is useful because it encourages us to think in terms of a system responding to an imbalance rather than two independent individuals making entirely unrelated decisions.
But the analogy should not be mistaken for a laboratory demonstration of Twin Flame mechanics. The second law of thermodynamics does not establish that spiritual consciousness flows between incarnations or that the Twin Flame push-pull operates through a measured physical energy transfer. The mechanism I describe comes from my observations of the Twin Flame phenomenon. Thermodynamics provides a conceptual comparison for thinking about compensation and equilibrium.
What matters in practical terms is that the awakened incarnation's state affects the behavior of the system. The Divine Feminine introduces pressure through identification with the mind, and the Divine Masculine responds by withdrawing. When that pressure is removed through alignment with Soul, the compensatory response changes. This is why trying to persuade the Divine Masculine to understand the connection is usually a distraction from the actual spiritual process. The system responds to the state of consciousness, not to how convincingly the awakened incarnation can explain the relationship.
Why the Divine Masculine Does Not Experience the Same Awakening
This brings us to the second major question: if Twin Flames are the same Soul, why does only one awaken? The answer becomes much easier to understand once we stop assuming that every incarnation of a Soul must undergo identical spiritual experiences.
Consider your own reincarnational history. Did you experience a spontaneous spiritual awakening in every life you have ever lived? There is no reason to assume that you did. Different incarnations involve different experiences, different circumstances, and different stages of spiritual development. In this life, the awakened Twin Flame undergoes the spiritual awakening, while the other incarnation does not need to undergo the same process.
Within my working explanation, the Divine Masculine represents an earlier incarnation of the same Soul. That incarnation is not functioning at the same level of conscious spiritual awareness as the Divine Feminine. Consequently, the Divine Masculine does not necessarily recognize the underlying connection or understand why their behavior changes in response to the awakened incarnation.
When the Divine Feminine focuses outwardly and introduces pressure, the Divine Masculine feels compelled to withdraw. When the Divine Feminine returns to alignment with Soul, the Divine Masculine feels drawn toward the relationship. They may not understand why they suddenly want to leave or why they later feel compelled to return, but that lack of conscious explanation is entirely consistent with the reactive role.
Through New World Allstar, I have asked audiences whether their Twin Flames provided a clear reason when they first ran. In one informal audience poll, approximately 40 percent reported receiving an explanation, while about 60 percent said the person left without giving one. That was an informal audience response, not a controlled scientific survey, but it illustrates something I have encountered repeatedly: the running behavior does not always come with a coherent explanation.
Even when an explanation is offered, the conscious incarnation's state remains central to understanding the recurring push-pull. The Divine Masculine does not have to understand the mechanics of the unified system to respond to them. In the same way, someone does not need to understand the underlying mechanics of every biological process in order for their body to function. The response can occur without conscious knowledge of its cause.
That is why I do not teach people to wait for the Divine Masculine to experience the same spontaneous spiritual awakening. The awakened incarnation is the one consciously undergoing that process, while the other incarnation responds within the shared system.
Suffering Is Not the Same Thing as Spiritual Awakening
This distinction is especially important because the online Twin Flame community frequently confuses ordinary psychological suffering with spiritual awakening. Someone experiences a breakup, goes through a difficult period, struggles with depression, or encounters major personal problems. Their partner then interprets those circumstances as evidence that the person is undergoing a Dark Night of the Soul and beginning to awaken.
But suffering alone does not establish that a spiritual awakening has occurred. People suffer for many reasons. Relationships end, careers change, financial difficulties arise, and people experience emotional distress throughout their lives. Those experiences can be painful and transformative, but pain by itself is not the defining characteristic of the spontaneous spiritual awakening I discuss in my work.
The awakening involves recognizable changes in consciousness that extend beyond ordinary emotional distress. People report phenomena such as Kundalini experiences, unusual sensations involving the heart center, spontaneous intuitive or psychic experiences, precognitive dreams, out-of-body experiences, and direct experiences of Oneness. Not everyone reports every phenomenon, but the overall pattern is substantially different from simply going through a difficult period.
The suffering may precede the awakening, but the suffering is not the awakening itself. This distinction is foundational to how I evaluate Twin Flame experiences through New World Allstar. I do not identify a genuine Twin Flame connection simply because someone is intensely attached to another person or has experienced significant emotional pain. The spontaneous spiritual awakening is a central part of the identification process.
This is also where psychology and the study of exceptional human experiences become relevant. Researchers have documented reports of unusual spiritual and transformative experiences, including experiences that individuals describe as spontaneous or profoundly life-changing. Such research can help establish that people report recognizable categories of experiences, but it does not independently establish the Twin Flame interpretation or determine whether a particular person has met another incarnation of the same Soul.
That Twin-Flame-specific distinction comes from the patterns I have observed through years of coaching and studying the phenomenon. It is therefore a mistake to assume that the Divine Masculine must be awakening simply because they are experiencing emotional pain. The Divine Masculine can suffer without undergoing the spontaneous spiritual awakening that characterizes the conscious incarnation, and that difference is entirely consistent with the roles of the two incarnations within the unified system.
Why Genuine Twin Flames Often Respond Differently to Being Questioned
There is another observation from my coaching work that helps distinguish the genuine Twin Flame experience from ordinary romantic obsession. When I evaluate someone who believes they have met their Twin Flame, I ask questions about the circumstances of the relationship, the spiritual awakening, and the experiences that followed. I am looking for the recognizable pattern rather than simply accepting the person's conclusion because they feel intensely connected to someone.
At a certain point, I may ask them how they would respond if I told them that the person they met was not their Twin Flame. The responses can be revealing. People whose experiences closely match the spontaneous awakening pattern are often surprisingly open to the possibility. Some tell me they would accept my assessment, while others say they would actually feel relieved if the person were not their Twin Flame.
That response makes sense when you consider what they have been through. They are not necessarily trying to defend a romantic fantasy. They have experienced something extraordinary, often accompanied by considerable psychological suffering, and they want to understand what happened.
By contrast, people whose experiences do not match the awakening pattern sometimes become intensely defensive when the possibility is raised. They may argue, bargain, or insist that the connection must be a Twin Flame relationship despite the absence of the defining experiences. The difference is not that one group is morally superior to the other. It is that psychological attachment can make someone deeply invested in a particular interpretation of a relationship.
If the mind has built its identity around the belief that another person is its Twin Flame, questioning that belief can feel like a threat to the entire psychological story. This is why I place so much importance on recognizable spiritual experiences and recurring patterns rather than emotional intensity alone.
A person can be obsessed with someone without having met their Twin Flame. A person can experience heartbreak without undergoing a spontaneous spiritual awakening. And someone can believe their partner is awakening when that partner is simply going through a difficult period in life. The distinction matters because misunderstanding the experience leads people to pursue explanations and solutions that do not address what is actually happening.
Could There Be More Than Two Incarnations of the Same Soul?
The reincarnation explanation raises another interesting possibility. If two incarnations of the same Soul can exist during the same historical period, why assume there must be only two?
Under this model, there could be additional incarnations of the same Soul living in the world simultaneously. The familiar Twin Flame relationship would involve two incarnations that encounter one another and participate in the recognizable awakening and push-pull dynamic. But the existence of that pair would not necessarily mean that no other incarnations of the same Soul were physically present.
There could be several incarnations, or potentially many, existing at the same historical moment. This possibility challenges the popular assumption that every Soul must be divided into exactly two physical individuals and that those two individuals are the only expressions of that Soul existing in the world. My working explanation does not require that limitation.
If reincarnation can involve incarnations appearing at overlapping points in historical time, the number of simultaneous incarnations need not be restricted to two. Of course, this raises another question: why would the awakened incarnation recognize one particular person as their Twin Flame while remaining unaware of other possible incarnations?
The answer is that the spontaneous spiritual awakening is the defining event that makes the relationship recognizable. You do not identify a Twin Flame merely by looking at someone and deciding that they seem spiritually familiar. You identify the experience through the awakening and the recurring characteristics that accompany it.
There is no reason to assume that meeting every other incarnation of the same Soul would necessarily trigger another spontaneous awakening. The possibility of additional simultaneous incarnations is therefore an implication of my reincarnation model, not a claim that I have identified a particular number of such incarnations in the world.
What matters is that the same-Soul explanation does not inherently require the entire incarnational history of consciousness to be reduced to one pair of human beings. The familiar Twin Flame relationship may be one particular interaction between incarnations belonging to a much larger continuity of consciousness.
The Awakened Twin Flame's Actual Responsibility
Once these distinctions are understood, the practical implications become much clearer. The awakened Twin Flame does not need to convince the Divine Masculine that they are the same Soul. They do not need to persuade the other person to study non-duality, recognize Kundalini, or undergo the same spiritual awakening.
The Divine Masculine is the reactive incarnation within the unified system, while the Divine Feminine is the conscious incarnation. That means the conscious incarnation's primary responsibility is to align with Soul rather than continually focusing on the other person.
When the Divine Feminine identifies with the psychological mind, the system responds through separation. When the Divine Feminine moves beyond that identification and recognizes the underlying Oneness of consciousness, the pressure is reduced and the system begins to rebalance.
This is the central practical teaching of The True Spiritual Journey™. The work is not about improving your ability to control the other person's behavior. It is about recognizing the consciousness that you fundamentally are and moving beyond the psychological attachment that keeps the system in a state of imbalance.
This is also why ordinary relationship advice so often fails to explain the Twin Flame experience. People assume that the solution must involve better communication, persuading the other person to confront their feelings, or waiting for them to reach the same level of spiritual understanding. But the recurring pattern I have observed through New World Allstar points toward a different mechanism.
The conscious incarnation changes its state, and the reactive incarnation responds. That is the defining relationship within the unified system. The Divine Masculine does not need to understand the spiritual explanation for the response to occur, just as the Divine Feminine does not need to manufacture the underlying unity of Soul. That unity already exists, and the spiritual work concerns recognizing it rather than attempting to create it.
What the Same-Soul Explanation Ultimately Reveals
When we bring these observations together, the relationship between the two major questions becomes much clearer. Why are Twin Flames the same Soul? Because the recurring patterns of the Twin Flame phenomenon reveal a relationship between two incarnations that is consistent with a unified spiritual system. The push-pull, the response to changes in consciousness, the reported physical energy experiences, and the connection to non-dual teachings all contribute to that understanding.
Why does only one Twin Flame awaken? Because the two incarnations are not necessarily at the same stage of conscious spiritual development. Within my reincarnation explanation, the Divine Feminine represents a later incarnation of the same Soul, while the Divine Masculine represents an earlier one. They share the same underlying consciousness without possessing identical levels of awareness or identical experiences.
The Divine Feminine undergoes the spontaneous spiritual awakening and becomes consciously aware of the connection. The Divine Masculine responds to the state of the unified system without necessarily understanding its spiritual nature. This also explains why the push-pull is so important. The running and returning are not random events that must be explained entirely through the other person's psychology. They are recurring responses within a system whose two incarnations are connected at the level of Soul.
The Great Spiritual Masters provide the philosophical foundation by explaining the distinction between psychological separation and the underlying Oneness of consciousness. My work through New World Allstar applies that understanding to the specific observations of the Twin Flame phenomenon. The reincarnation explanation adds another layer by addressing how two distinct physical individuals could be expressions of the same Soul and why their spiritual awareness differs.
I continue to regard the exact reincarnational arrangement as a working explanation, but the practical findings that led me to develop it remain central to my teaching. The awakened incarnation is conscious of the spiritual process, while the unawakened incarnation is reactive. Chasing introduces pressure, running is the compensatory response, and alignment with Soul allows the system to rebalance.
The most important consequence is that the awakened Twin Flame can stop waiting for the other person to understand something they were never required to understand in the first place. The spiritual awakening belongs to the conscious incarnation, the underlying unity belongs to Soul, and the physical relationship responds to the state of the unified system.
Once those distinctions are clear, the Twin Flame phenomenon becomes far less mysterious. The two incarnations do not need to think alike, feel alike, or awaken in the same way to be expressions of one Soul. Their differences are part of the very structure that makes the unified-system relationship recognizable.
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